Today is your lucky day because I will show you how to make ANY FEMALE squirt!

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Thats right - any female! There are lots of tutorials out there but I do have extra tips for you that will help you even with women that say they can’t squirt!

Personally, I LOOOOOOVE SQUIRTING. It is one of my favourite things! Especially if I come across women that havent or think they can’t do it, Imagine as a man having not ejaculated for 30 years… Today’s video will give you all the practical information to be the one that will make her squirt!

I will explain the basics about squirting and then I have for you 3 steps to the ultimate squirting experience.

Let’s start from the top.

What is squirting?

Squirting is female ejaculation. Ejaculation has long been associated only with penises and male sexuality but ejaculation happen also for women - before, during, after, or even without orgasm.

It is an involuntary expulsion of fluid from the urethra, the same tube used for peeing. That said, that is the reason why many people confuse it with urine because they don’t have any clue what is happening. And sometimes the ejaculate can smell a bit of like urine. But it is not the same liquid as it gets created in a different gland.

The easiest way to make a woman squirt is by stimulating her G-spot. And as you can see on this diagram, the moment you engage the G-spot, it affects her urethra as well and hence also why many women experience the peeing-like sensation just before they ejaculate. 

Squirting is experienced when the woman is able to relax and let go. You can’t push your way into it. So knowing all of this, you can actually help your partner relax and encourage her to feel safe to try to relax even though she might feel like she wants to pee. Let her know that any outcome is welcomed, you are exploring together and you are there for her.

So now it the time to give you the 3 steps to ultimate squirting experience.

Step 1 – SET THE SCENE

Bring some attention to the space you are in. Eliminate any disturbance, add an extra something by lighting up some candles and playing some soft music. Make the environment as relaxing as possible to help your partner to relax and let go.

Also, communicate your intention to your partner. Let her know that she can relax and just receive. Explain to her that you are fully here for her and she does not have to be afraid to feel all the sensations, including the sense that she has to pee. You are there for her and it is about the fun together. Let her know you expect nothin in return. My only recommendation is get a towel and place underneath her.

Then invite your woman to lay down and relax.

Step 2 – BUILD HER UP

Women take longer to open up and get aroused. You want to start with a massage of her whole body to activate every inch of it. Touch her, caress her and slowly build up the arousal she feels. This is already part of the journey. The more time you devote to these simple build up steps, the easier it will be to make her squirt by the time you get to the G-spot. I would have her on her stomach and play particular attention to her mid section so work on the upper thighs, bum and hips. the idea is to get her deeply relaxed.

When her whole body is turned on, move onto vulva and massage her with her favourite strokes. You are further building up the excitement and the desire she is feeling. You can stroke her clitoris or use your whole palm to massage the whole area. The aim here is to get her body ready to receive you. When you put your hand close to the vaginal opening, she will be automatically draw you in with her pelvic muscles if she is ready.

Step 3 – G-SPOT STIMULATION AND SQUIRTING

When you feel her turn on drawing you in, insert two fingers in and start making your way to her G-spot. It is about 2 inches inside of her vagina and it is a small spongy spot. The more aroused she is, the easier it should be to find it because there is more blood flow coming in and it swells up.

Here is a pro tip and I havent heard this tip anywhere rather then feeling it when your in the right spot of doing the right movement listen for it, the louder the noise the closer you are. I also encourager my partner to express vocally so she can fully let go. I let her know that anything is accepted.

The best technique to make her squirt is the COME-TO-ME MOVEMENT – I like to sit on her right side with her legs open. Then, with my right hand, I slide my two fingers in her vagina and start making the move from the back towards me, over the G-spot. I generally start as deep as I can and work my way forward, using sound as my guide. Start with slow and gentle movement and change it as you feel fit. All the time watching her reactions and doing what allows her to open more and more and feel all the arousal. It’s important to help her relax through this process and tell her how sexy she is and that hearing her is turning you on. 

I find that sliding the 2 outside fingers into her asshole area and even sometimes sliding inside as things get very well lubricated down there might get her even wilder. Plus it is a great way to get those two finger out of the way

Now it is only matter of the time. Keep doing the stroke, you can experiment with your speed and with the pressure you are using and allow her just to sink deep into the pleasure she is feeling.

What you need to be aware of is that vaginal walls store emotions. What it means is that for some women this type of stimulation can be slightly painful at first so don’t forget to communicate with your partner or watch for her reactions at all times.

Plus, I have had also a lot of women crying during this process. Others experience a lot of sadness or even anger. Allow them to express it all. Even encourage them to do so. It brings a deep sense of relieve to be able to let go of stored emotions. And what is fascinating is that if you keep going and she releases all of that emotional pain, she can burst into the most earth-shattering orgasm within few seconds. Basically all the tissue in her vagina has the potential to be orgasmic but our bodies are usually not that receptive so it takes some unlocking to be able to feel so much.

Now I have one more secret tip in case all of the above doesn’t work. 80/90% women will respond to the described technique but some might need a little bit of extra help. It is often times due to them tensing their stomach so to help them feel more relaxed and safe, simply place your left hand on the stomach and maybe even gently caress it.

Remember every woman is different and even every time you do it with the same woman, her response can be completely unique. Drop all of your expectation and just explore.

G-spot orgasms are amazing because once she unlocks it within her, she will be able to experience as many orgasms as possible. Because unlike with clitoral orgasm where the clit needs a bit of time to rest, G-spot stimulation can be ongoing and the orgasms will feel more like a wave - she will reach one peak, the relax little bit, her arousal will slightly drop, but sooner than you know it her arousal will be going up again…. and again…and again…and again. You can keep stimulating her as long as she enjoys it. Keep the G-spot lubricated and your strokes in sync with her body so that the area does not get sore.

There are few more elements to squirting  you want to be aware of

Firstly, as much as it can be about your technique and your effort to make her squirt - whether she does or not depends massively on where your partner is at. You can literally use the same stroke on two different occasions and have completely different experience. Squirting is a release so your partner needs to be relaxed and present, confident at that moment and willing. If she is stressed or feel disconnected, you could end up pleasuring her for hours without any result.

Second, hydration actually matters here. Whether she squirts or how much can be influenced also by how well her body is hydrated. She is releasing a lot of fluids. So keep that in mind also after a night together when she might have squirted a lot because she might get headaches if she does not drink enough water the next day.

And third, make space for After care. When women release emotionally, especially from their most intimate places, they can be very tender, more sensitive and more emotional the next 24 hours. So make space to be there for her, whether it is in conversation, maybe in a hug. You don’t want her to spiral into a trigger because then it creates more problems. Any release can be easily navigated through and integrated with the right approach and care.

And that is all. Small details is sometimes what changes the game so I hope you now understand what happens in female body when they squirt, how to help her have that experience and what to be aware of. You got this. Go and practice.

Robbie Oz